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(Popularity Rate: 48 ) What brand of sex dolls do you like the most?
s ago I knew about Real Dolls, but they were around $5000 -not within my budget. I forgot about them and I don’t know if they crossed my mind since then, until I did an online search for sex dolls about nine months ago and I was shocked to discover that there’s a lot of manufacturers, dolls have become very lifelike, beautiful (in my opinion), and they’re affordable now.
So I started window shopping, just for fun, and that very quickly developed into a doll fetish (agalmatophilia). After doing a lot of research, I finally picked one out and ordered about two weeks ago. She arrived a few days ago and I was anxious to open the box, see how she looks and see how TPE (thermoplastic elastomer, a material similar to silicone that is said to feel very much like real human skin) feels after looking at these dolls online for months. Mese DollI braced myself, because I was worried I would be disappointed by her appearance or how she feels. After opening the box, first I was very pleasantly surprised by how beautiful her body is; stunning detail. I looked at her face and she is extremely cute. One of the first parts I touched as I was unpacking her was a calf and I was amazed at how real it felt -just like human skin and the way the skin moves is just like human skin, muscle, and fat jiggling. WOW!
I have to say at this point that there are a few things that will shock anyone the first time they touch or handle a TPE sex doll: they are shipped with their heads removed, so you open a 5′5″ box and see a headless body. Then you discover that the body is frigid cold -shockingly cold. Then you try to lift her out of the box. Uh oh! I had read that these dolls are heavy, but I had no idea what I was in for. I read about her weight ahead of time on the website; she’s 75 lb. So if a real woman with the same height and body shape weighs around 125 lb, then this should be a breeze, right? No! Carrying a real woman newlywed style is different; they put their arms around your neck and balance their weight -they can help you to an extent. This 5′6″ (she’s taller than me, which is kind of cute), 75 lb doll is extremely difficult to move -far more than I could ever have imagined!
Unfortunately, you can’t just take your beautiful, brand new doll to the bedroom and begin the romance, you have some work to do: you need to take the lifeless, headless, cold, and heavy body to the shower and clean off the manufacturing chemicals with soap and warm water. It was so difficult getting that body to the bathroom, I almost don’t know how I did it. I’ve had chronic back problems since I was in my twenties, I sprained a knee a while ago and it’s never going to fully heal, and I recently recovered from a hernia surgery.
I’ve been trying to figure out how to move her more easily… I’ve been thinking about getting some roller skates for her and carefully guiding her around. That’s either pure genius or so stupid that I’ll make the news when she falls on me, I can’t get up, I scream for help after struggling for hours, and the paramedics, police, and fire fighters all smash in my front door and rush to help me only to find me pinned on the bathroom floor under a hot, naked sex doll. Now that’s the stuff of urban legend.
I decided the easiest way to clean the chemicals off would be to shower with the headless body, so that’s what I did. While that was strange and disturbing, I made some wonderful discoveries about TPE: it heats up fast (especially in a warm shower), holds heat in, dries exactly like human skin (some toweling off and air drying takes care of the rest -it air dries in minutes just like our skin does), and it feels wonderful when it’s wet.
I took the body to the bedroom, I put her head on (it screws on, so her head goes around and around… exorcist style), I grabbed one of the wigs I ordered, and that’s when she came together. She no longer looked like a corpse, now she was stunningly gorgeous. She comes with a wig, I ordered another one (long red) from the same website, and I ordered a Bettie Page style pin-up costume wig from Amazon, just because I’m obsessed with pin-up girl art and thought it would be fun to dress her up as a retro gal with polka-dot dresses, cat eye glasses, and a flower in her hair. I’m not disappointed with the results.
Now for the Juicy Stuff
I kissed her and wow! Her lips feel indistinguishable from human lips; kissing her is exactly like kissing a girlfriend.
Her body is very anatomically correct, surprisingly so.
Her breasts feel good, a little firm, but good. She has solid boobs, while other manufacturers offer gel-filled boobs as an option, with rave reviews.
I laid her on the bed on her back, spread her legs (which was not easy, they’re heavy and difficult to move around, and I inserted a USB heating rod ($9.00) for five minutes. I put a water based lube in and it was time. Here goes my sex doll virginity… and wow it felt good. I just didn’t know what to expect and in a lot of ways it was not all that different from having sex with a real girl. As I said earlier, TPE is very good at holding heat, so my own body heat is enough to warm her up. It’s different than sex with a human in the obvious ways: they don’t have emotions, nerves, don’t feel pleasure, don’t actively participate, can’t have orgasms, and can’t communicate with you. It’s also different in that there’s a little bit of a suction effect -as air get’s displaced, there ends up being a vacuum and it feels very, very, very good. There’s a popping air sound when pulling out that in and of itself is a turn on.
Because the extremely fast rate that sex technology is developing, I have no doubt that AI sex dolls (which already exist) will feel sensors, react, actively have sex with us, and talk dirty and tell us that they love us in the very near future. I love sex with real women and I love how much these dolls look and feel like real women, however, in my case things are a lot different: because I fetishize dolls and I’m specifically turned on by their dollness, I enjoy the experience for what it is rather than hoping for it to be as close to a human/human sex experience as possible. Does that make sense? Doll/human is my thing, so I love every second of it, until I have to move her.
I was very happy with the experience, but here are downsides: I can’t say it enough that the weight is a serious problem, even laying down -her body sank into the mattress and pillows. Girl on top positions are out of the question, no way. The clean up afterward is very involved -It’s recommended to insert a tampon to absorb the user’s body fluid and lube before the struggle to get her to the bathroom begins and this time I kept her head on so she’s much nicer to look at. I douched out her vagina, something that I had to learn how to do before she arrived. That wasn’t as bad as I thought it was going to be, the problem once again is her weight -just trying to get her into a position that’s conducive to flushing out her womanhood (ok, dollhood) was so challenging. Cleaning up your partner after sex is a whole chapter.
I spent a small fortune buying all the stuff I need to take care of her and I spent a lot of time researching, reading articles and watching videos to prepare. There is a lot of maintenance and expense involved, but that’s ok, because it’s worth it to me.
Emotional Effects
Besides the sexual experiences, she offers companionship. I’ve heard and read story after story about guys falling in love with their dolls and it’s been said that falling in love with a sex doll is easier than you think. Well, a lot of sex dolls have eyes that look very, very real. When you look into a pair of beautiful eyes from a few inches away and they seem to be looking deeply into you… neurons in the brain start firing off love and endorphins all over the place. As I mentioned, the kissing is very natural feeling, so add that to looking into her eyes, hugging and holding her, and holding her hand and I can’t help but feel something on a pretty deep level.
I have suffered with a profound amount of loneliness, mental illness (depression, anxiety, OCD, PTSD, addiction, and eating disorders), and of the very few relationships I’ve been in, more than one of them were abusive. After many years of failing to meet the right girl (and not for a lack of trying), and spending most of my life very alone, at 49 years old, I find a deep degree of comfort in spending time with my doll, Jennifer. Buying clothes, shoes, perfume, and accessories for her make me feel like I’m caring for someone. I ordered a purse for her and it happened to arrive on Christmas Eve, so I was able to give it to her as a present and it makes me feel like I love someone and they love me.
I suppose there are going to be as many different answers to your question as there are people answering it, but I think everyone who has had the experience can agree on a few of the points I made above.
Sex dolls have become extremely popular -apparently sales have exploded during the pandemic, and I think a lot more people have one (or more) than we might think. However, there are major social stigmas. I won’t bring Jennifer out on any dates in public and I won’t be introducing her to my parents, but I shouldn’t be ashamed, especially since she’s bringing so much happiness to my life. I should also learn to not care what other people think.
Would I recommend it? yes! I think anyone who is unattached, lonely, wants to experiment with a doll, couples who want to experiment with a doll, and anyone else who is just
(Popularity Rate: 17 ) How a sex toy be better?
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Most sex toys can be washed with nothing more than soap and hot water. Depending on the toy, you want to use different kinds of soap. 100% silicone toys can withstand harsh soaps like dishwashing liquid, but wood or non-silicone plastics ought to be used with milder, unscented soaps. Wash your toy for 15 seconds, avoiding any electrical ports, and then rinse it off carefully.
Do not submerge any sex toy that takes batteries, and never submerge electrical toys without checking with the manufacturer’s recommended use. If you are using anti-bacterial soap (which we suggest if your toy is used by more than one person), it needs to be left on a surface for about two minutes in order to finish killing bacteria and viruses. Rinse it off well and let it totally air dry.
A condom can be used to cover a toy during play for easy clean-up later. This is also helpful if the toy is being used by more than one person, or if being moved from anus to mouth or vagina. Never insert a sex toy (or finger! or anything else!) in the mouth or vagina if it has been used in the anus without a condom or without being washed properly. This could spread bacteria and viruses from the anus and cause infections in the vagina, urinary tract or intestines. If a condom was used with the sex toy, replace the condom with a new one before inserting into a different orifice. We know it’s easy to get carried away and lose track of which toy, finger or other object went into which hole, but this is best practice for safety, so make it part of your playtime habits!
Always remove the batteries when you’re done using any toy so they can’t leak, run down, or otherwise corrupt the toy; both the batteries and the toy itself will last longer! This will also help to keep the batteries from killing the motors. Porous toys should be covered with a condom if they’re used by more
(Popularity Rate: 62 ) Can sex toys, condoms cause infection?
m wasn’t sealed or if it gets used with two or more partners (in the same context) it can transmit infections and STDs from one partner to the others. Another case if the condom is worn, used for anal play, then the penis gets transferred immedately to the vagina. If you have more than one partner or want to switch from anus to vagina, always change the condom. On the other hand, many people are allergic to latex, so if using the condom you feel a burning sensation you may be allergic too. The solution is to use latex-free condoms.
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(Popularity Rate: 43 ) I found a sex toy in my 9 year old daughters room. What should I do?
her sexual health and perspective going foward throught life.
You may not be ready for it, you may think shes to young, but that doesn’t change the fact that the moment has arrived. Ignoring it is dangerous. Male Torso Sex DollEducation is necessary at this point.
And find out how the heck your 9 year old daughter came to be in possession of a sex toy to begin with. That is not something a child that age should have access to. If it belongs to anyone in your home and she found it and took it another conversation needs to be had with her about invading other people’s spaces and taking what she has no right to, and also with whoever it belongs to about keeping items that children have absolutely no busines
(Popularity Rate: 10 ) Are glass sex toys recyclable?
ecycled. It’s chemically quite different from ordinary glass, and has a much higher melting point. The furnaces used to recycle normal glass can’t get hot enough to melt borosilicate glass, and even if they could, the borosilicate glass would contaminate the temptasia bellatrix ordinary glass, making it unusable.
Some cheap glass sex toys are made of ordinary glass. These can Lifelike Sex Dollsbe recycled.
The problem is, there’s no easy way to tell the difference between glass and borosilicate. I don’t know of any facilities that can separate the two.
Basically, that means the answer is no.
As I write this answer, someone on Quora is creating phony profiles that look just like mine, and using them to send abusive/harassing messages to people. I
(Popularity Rate: 17 ) Has someone ever given your child a present that bothered you?
bash my ex, sincerely, it’s just the truth.)
She walked in and I heard him race off. Then she showed me her “new” iPod. (Well, not new, it had been her older half sisters, she was 16. ) She said her Daddy had given it to her.
(I wasn’t surprised because I’d asked him several months earlier, to just talk with me before giving her electronics, in hopes we could have a United plan for access or monitoring inappropriate content for her as she was getting older, he just ignored me)
She was so excited and she told me that “they”( I assumed they, were her Dad and his GF) loaded it with a bunch of songs for her. She started listening and then got a strange look on her face…then it turned into a shocked, then embarrassed. Then she suddenly took out the earbuds and just handed the whole thing to me.
I looked at the screen and saw that the song she had just heard was called
“Bitches and Ho’s Can Suck My Dick” by Dre.
Yeah, not kidding. Wish I was. I scrolled through and my heart just dropped and my head just couldn’t wrap it self around what this was about.
I literally started making excuses for him in my own mind so I could avoid what I was really thinking. He did this on purpose. There were over a thousand songs from a variety of artists including a lot of hard core rappers. I stayed calm, although I think my voice took on a kind of a Sing song like tone.
I asked my daughter,
“Honey, are you sure that Daddy GAVE this to you? “
She said “Yes. He showed it to me then said I could have it but he was going to put music on that we could enjoy. ( I missed the “we” part at first.)
But I don’t know that song”.
I said “Ok, Can I have it for a bit? I’m gonna call your dad and see if he made a mistake, ok?” She already knew it wasn’t really right and that it probably wasn’t a mistake, but I said it anyway.
I went to my room and texted him. ”Ok, what’s with the new Ipod? Why would you do this?” Pls call me.
Instead his GF texted me. She Texted “Actually, I loaded the Ipod, I don’t think he knows how to do that kinda stuff.)
Only what I knew, but she didn’t, was he did know exactly what to do. We’d had some issues with iPods and account and authorizing and he and I had to figure it all out, he was lying to her. Or she was lying for him.
I hadn’t responded yet and she She texted “I just added my whole Itunes library”.
“My son and daughters music too!”.
(Her daughter is 12 and her very wholesome son was off at college, I’m thinking he didn’t leave his music, especially that kind of music on mommy’s computer)
She was panicking.
I respond “Ok, that explains some things. But I kinda need to try and wrap my head around this, so can I just talk in a sec.?”
She texted..
“I didn’t censor it or anything”
”its my library…”
I replied “What?“
“We didn’t censor it because we didn’t think she would take it home with her.”
She’s clearly not going to speak with me. For some reason, the woman refuses to speak on the phone or face to face. (not in 5 yrs, )
Nothing she texted made things any better.
As she just kept panic texting me little excuses.
I got more mad. What really bothered me about this whole “Gift” thing was it wasn’t about giving my kid a gift at all. They used her, and they did it on purpose.
The reason I knew that they did, was because they were talking about the music.
But hadn’t even mentioned it yet. Never even hinted that I knew what was on it. Just that he gave her electronics when I asked him to talk to me first. So, they knew it wasn’t ok before I even asked.
What ever he was cooking up, was intended to make me look bad by the next court appearance he had recently filed to modify his visitation. He was going to have to pay child support, but more time with our child would lower the amount.
But it didn’t go as he was planning, it had back fired.
Now I had something and he had nothing.
Not that it mattered, he’d lie about something else.
So the next text I got was Monday.
He texted “Give the iPod to Her, (our kid) and she can meet me out front so I can pick it up today.”
I said “No.”
He texted “ What do you mean No? You need to hand it over, now.”
I didn’t respond.
There was a DV protection order that prevented him from coming to my house unless he’s picking her up for his visit and communication is to be peaceful and about our daughter.
He texted “You better hand it over or She’ll (his GF) lose all her music! I mean it! I’m coming right now!”
I responded, “No, you aren’t coming over. You have no visit today. Give me a break! You forget I know. We both know that won’t happen. It’s only authorized to one account. Yours or Hers. So the music won’t get lost. “
He threatened to “come in and get it.”
I replied “No you won’t. Because that’s not ok for your child and because I’ll have to call the police and you’re go back to jail.” I asked “I don’t know what you are trying to do, but Why would you expose her to this stuff? You need to just stop and focus on being a decent Dad.”
Nothing.
“are you worried cuz it’s still connected to your account? You were going to blame me, huh?”
He never responded.
Since then he’s also given an iPhone and demanded I let him put her on his plan so he could get a discount. But I then he could track her but I couldn’t and she lives with me. I declined. But told him if he wanted to actually contribute to the cost, he could. He didnt. Then he gave her a tablet, but he registered it to himself and deactivated parental controls. When I asked him to change it or give me the password to add parental controls he refused. Then it was a laptop….this is ongoing and exhausting.
But the best part was 3 yrs later she was now 13 just got home from his house and apparently she got in a fight with her half sister who promptly went to their Dad, my ex, and outed her.
He texted me saying “ you better start acting like a parent and start monitoring what your kids doing on the internet and shit.“ ( I swear, that’s word for word.) “I’m sure that’s why she’s coming up with all this crap she’s been doing and stuff she’s thinking recently.“
(I figured he meant that her cell phone turned her gay? )
I already knew about the fight and her sister telling her Dad she was gay. I didn’t tell him because I thought she had a right to tell him when she felt comfortable.
I responded
“I am on top of her internet access, what are you referring to exactly?”
He responded
“If you won’t be the parent, Than give me her password and I’ll take her phone away and do your job if you can’t”!
I ignored the doing my job part since he never has, not worth the effort to address.
“What rumors are you hearing and we are grown ups, just tell me who’s telling you things that you aren’t just addressing with her while she’s in your care ?”
Then he admitted it was her sister but said I shouldn’t tell our daughter or else “ She won’t trust her anymore and she won’t be able to spy on her for us anymore”.
I said I don’t want her to spy, I wanted her to just have a normal sister. But you do this and they resent each other!”
Please just try to be a decent Dad and be supportive. If y don’t support her, don’t be a dick.
He responded “ fuck you.
While most divorced couples are able to set stuff aside and do what is best for their kids, some just can’t, or won’t.
Usually, when it’s a custodial parent’s “off” weekend, (when kids go to the other parents) its their time to just relax. Date or just do what they want, and NOT worry.
I honestly would welcome a gift from him that really was just for her to enjoy, wouldn’t even care that I can’t afford it but he can , I just want her to have what she deserves. This isn’t what she deserves. A gift, should be a gift. Not a form of manipulation .
The gifts he’s given her have never been for her enjoyment, there is always another agenda. And always a way for me to be the bad guy, because I’m the one that will take it away.
I divorced him because he was is abusive. The court decided he wasn’t, at least to his kids. They are absolutely wrong.
But the way he tells it….
“ I just wanted to give my kid a a gift. I don’t know why she ins