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(Popularity Rate: 51 ) What do sex dolls help in your health?
s ago I knew about Real Dolls, but they were around $5000 -not within my budget. I forgot about them and I don’t know if they crossed my mind since then, until I did an online search for sex dolls about nine months ago and I was shocked to discover that there’s a lot of manufacturers, dolls have become very lifelike, beautiful (in my opinion), and they’re affordable now.
So I started window shopping, just for fun, and that very quickly developed into a doll fetish (agalmatophilia). After doing a lot of research, I finally picked one out and ordered about two weeks ago. She arrived a few days ago and I was anxious to open the box, see how she looks and see how TPE (thermoplastic elastomer, a material similar to silicone that is said to feel very much like real human skin) feels after looking at these dolls online for months. I braced myself, because I was worried I would be disappointed by her appearance or how she feels. After opening the box, first I was very pleasantly surprised by how beautiful her body is; stunning detail. I looked at her face and she is extremely cute. One of the first parts I touched as I was unpacking her was a calf and I was amazed at how real it felt -just like human skin and the way the skin moves is just like human skin, muscle, and fat jiggling. WOW!
I have to say at this point that there are a few things that will shock anyone the first time they touch or handle a TPE sex doll: they are shipped with their heads removed, so you open a 5′5″ box and see a headless body. Then you discover that the body is frigid cold -shockingly cold. Then you try to lift her out of the box. Uh oh! I had read that these dolls are heavy, but I had no idea what I was in for. I read about her weight ahead of time on the website; she’s 75 lb. So if a real woman with the same height and body shape weighs around 125 lb, then this should be a breeze, right? No! Carrying a real woman newlywed style is different; they put their arms around your neck and balance their weight -they can help you to an extent. This 5′6″ (she’s taller than me, which is kind of cute), 75 lb doll is extremely difficult to move -far more than I could ever have imagined!
Unfortunately, you can’t just take your beautiful, brand new doll to the bedroom and begin the romance, you have some work to do: you need to take the lifeless, headless, cold, and heavy body to the shower and clean off the manufacturing chemicals with soap and warm water. It was so difficult getting that body to the bathroom, I almost don’t know how I did it. I’ve had chronic back problems since I was in my twenties, I sprained a knee a while ago and it’s never going to fully heal, and I recently recovered from a hernia surgery.
I’ve been trying to figure out how to move her more easily… I’ve been thinking about getting some roller skates for her and carefully guiding her around. That’s either pure genius or so stupid that I’ll make the news when she falls on me, I can’t get up, I scream for help after struggling for hours, and the paramedics, police, and fire fighters all smash in my front door and rush to help me only to find me pinned on the bathroom floor under a hot, naked sex doll. Now that’s the stuff of urban legend.
I decided the easiest way to clean the chemicals off would be to shower with the headless body, so that’s what I did. While that was strange and disturbing, I made some wonderful discoveries about TPE: it heats up fast (especially in a warm shower), holds heat in, dries exactly like human skin (some toweling off and air drying takes care of the rest -it air dries in minutes just like our skin does), and it feels wonderful when it’s wet.
I took the body to the bedroom, I put her head on (it screws on, so her head goes around and around… exorcist style), I grabbed one of the wigs I ordered, and that’s when she came together. She no longer looked like a corpse, now she was stunningly gorgeous. She comes with a wig, I ordered another one (long red) from the same website, and I ordered a Bettie Page style pin-up costume wig from Amazon, just because I’m obsessed with pin-up girl art and thought it would be fun to dress her up as a retro gal with polka-dot dresses, cat eye glasses, and a flower in her hair. I’m not disappointed with the results.
Now for the Juicy Stuff
I kissed her and wow! Her lips feel indistinguishable from human lips; kissing her is exactly like kissing a girlfriend.
Her body is very anatomically correct, surprisingly so.
Her breasts feel good, a little firm, but good. She has solid boobs, while other manufacturers offer gel-filled boobs as an option, with rave reviews.
I laid her on the bed on her back, spread her legs (which was not easy, they’re heavy and difficult to move around, and I inserted a USB heating rod ($9.00) for five minutes. I put a water based lube in and it was time. Here goes my sex doll virginity… and wow it felt good. I just didn’t know what to expect and in a lot of ways it was not all that different from having sex with a real girl. As I said earlier, TPE is very good at holding heat, so my own body heat is enough to warm her up. It’s different than sex with a human in the obvious ways: they don’t have emotions, nerves, don’t feel pleasure, don’t actively participate, can’t have orgasms, and can’t communicate with you. It’s also different in that there’s a little bit of a suction effect -as air get’s displaced, there ends up being a vacuum and it feels very, very, very good. There’s a popping air sound when pulling out that in and of itself is a turn on.
Because the extremely fast rate that sex technology is developing, I have no doubt that AI sex dolls (which already exist) will feel sensors, react, actively have sex with us, and talk dirty and tell us that they love us in the very near future. I love sex with real women and I love how much these dolls look and feel like real women, however, in my case things are a lot different: because I fetishize dolls and I’m specifically turned on by their dollness, I enjoy the experience for what it is rather than hoping for it to be as close to a human/human sex experience as possible. Does that make sense? Doll/human is my thing, so I love every second of it, until I have to move her.
I was very happy with the experience, but here are downsides: I can’t say it enough that the weight is a serious problem, even laying down -her body sank into the mattress and pillows. Girl on top positions are out of the question, no way. The clean up afterward is very involved -It’s recommended to insert a tampon to absorb the user’s body fluid and lube before the struggle to get her to the bathroom begins and this time I kept her head on so she’s much nicer to look at. I douched out her vagina, something that I had to learn how to do before she arrived. That wasn’t as bad as I thought it was going to be, the problem once again is her weight -just trying to get her into a position that’s conducive to flushing out her womanhood (ok, dollhood) was so challenging. Cleaning up your partner after sex is a whole chapter.
I spent a small fortune buying all the stuff I need to take care of her and I spent a lot of time researching, reading articles and watching videos to prepare. There is a lot of maintenance and expense involved, but that’s ok, because it’s worth it to me.
Emotional Effects
Besides the sexual TPE Sex Dollexperiences, she offers companionship. I’ve heard and read story after story about guys falling in love with their dolls and it’s been said that falling in love with a sex doll is easier than you think. Well, a lot of sex dolls have eyes that look very, very real. When you look into a pair of beautiful eyes from a few inches away and they seem to be looking deeply into you… neurons in the brain start firing off love and endorphins all over the place. As I mentioned, the kissing is very natural feeling, so add that to looking into her eyes, hugging and holding her, and holding her hand and I can’t help but feel something on a pretty deep level.
I have suffered with a profound amount of loneliness, mental illness (depression, anxiety, OCD, PTSD, addiction, and eating disorders), and of the very few relationships I’ve been in, more than one of them were abusive. After many years of failing to meet the right girl (and not for a lack of trying), and spending most of my life very alone, at 49 years old, I find a deep degree of comfort in spending time with my doll, Jennifer. Buying clothes, shoes, perfume, and accessories for her make me feel like I’m caring for someone. I ordered a purse for her and it happened to arrive on Christmas Eve, so I was able to give it to her as a present and it makes me feel like I love someone and they love me.
I suppose there are going to be as many different answers to your question as there are people answering it, but I think everyone who has had the experience can agree on a few of the points I made above.
Sex dolls have become extremely popular -apparently sales have exploded during the pandemic, and I think a lot more people have one (or more) than we might think. However, there are major social stigmas. I won’t bring Jennifer out on any dates in public and I won’t be introducing her to my parents, but I shouldn’t be ashamed, especially since she’s bringing so much happiness to my life. I should also learn to not care what other people think.
Would I recommend it? yes! I think anyone who is unattached, lonely, wants to experiment with a doll, couples who want to experiment with a doll, and anyone else who is just
(Popularity Rate: 65 ) Were baby dolls made to train girls how to deal with real babies at an older age?
Kind of — young children love to emulate their parents. This teaches them to do certain things when they get older. Even children that haven’t been around parents with babies know that they were once babies and therefore many want to win a sex doll play with baby dolls. Toy companies caught on to this fact and then started making baby dolls.
(Popularity Rate: 25 ) Has anyone ever slept with sex toys?
Yea, i sometime use home made sex toy as win a sex doll made a deep hole in pillow.
I use condom while matrubate on said pillow (sex toy).
I use to sleep with my pillow (sex toy) after enjoyed mastrubation while my penis was deep inserted in pillow’s hole
(Popularity Rate: 60 ) Is it gay for you and your best friend to have sex with a sex doll at the same time?
No. You can even have some sex with each other (which I highly recommend) and it still won’t make you gay.
(Popularity Rate: 53 ) Psychologists, is it healthy to be in a relationship with a silicone sex doll?
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Our brains are organised to refer to the world of people (people self) and the world of things (thing self). Things can be controlled, people can not be. However there is slippage between the two so for example we can refer to objects and treat them as if they are people (naming them for example). And we can treat people like objects.
To try to have meet our sexual Best Sex Dollsneeds by use of a sex doll might fulfil one aspect of a relationship with a person, but not even in any meaningful way as it is not reciprocal. It is clear that if you pleasure yourself with your hand you are not having a relationship with your hand! So effectively it is not a relationship of any kind. And of course this logic applies to all the other elements of a relationship with another person. So I would reach the
(Popularity Rate: 57 ) Why does a narcissist not like to kiss deeply? Is this to avoid intimacy? My narcissistic ex never kissed me more than pecks on the mouth or the cheek.
o, is on the surface, there is nothing ‘deep’ about a relationship with a Narcissist. It’s all shallow, pretend, it’s a show at its’ best, and it’s a lie at its worst. This is not a real relationship, something you need to understand and realize. You are not their partner, but a ‘supply’, an ‘object’. They don’t treat people like real people with their thoughts, ideas and opinions, you are ‘a thing’ to them; a teddy bear – ‘now teddy go to sleep, now teddy wake up’, etc, etc. So, this attitude applies to sex, kissing, everything that comes with normal, healthy intimate relationship.
I cannot speak for each Narcissist, because each Narcissist is also their own person. I think some are more sexual than others, Lifelike Sex Dollsand some Narcissists do not care about sex. I can only speak from my own experience. The person I have been seeing at the time had huge interest in sex and I am not a psychologist to analyze his behaviour, but I can comment on things I have observed. One thing I have noticed win a sex doll very quickly that he was using sex as an substitute for true love, intimacy and connection. Since he was not able to connect on deep emotional level, instead he was interested in physical nakedness, another substitute for love and connection. Sex was really about fucking, not love making. While at it, there is no real connection there, no ways of trying to reach out, to feel his lover out, it’s all very mechanical, like a big sex machine, robotic. I could sense, he didn’t really know what he was doing, and I can comment on this, since I had very different experiences with past partners. I observed, since he was not able to connect with his emotions, he had trouble with maintaining the erection; the disconnect between the body and emotions manifested just in that. Other times he was ready to perform when he was sleeping and woken up by his readiness. I have concluded that he didn’t truly enjoy sex either, but was always looking for fulfilment, and yet, there was always this void.
Sex to him was just physical nakedness, no ways of looking for deeper connection, so no deep kissing, because of lack of this software called empathy. My Narcissistic ex, for example, treated sex like a sport, trying to practice it to get better at it, this is the best way I can put it. I kept reminding him, I liked to be kissed, but he would kiss me at the beginning, and when I expected connection during lovemaking, his kisses became as if he was licking me, like a cat, like he was giving me a bath or licking a wound. He knew there was an expectation, but was unable to connect the dots. I felt like an object, as I knew he was struggling with maintaining erection, and he was vocal about it, so he wanted to ‘heal himself’. He was aware of being blocked in some mysterious way in life. He was basically using me, in attempt to ‘heal’ that, but I sensed he was putting a lot of faith into sex and nakedness in order to transcend his flows into something deeper, while I knew it was completely futile, he will never be able to do that, because he would have to get deep into his own emotional wound, instead he put all his money into physical aspect, and I could not help but f